I read this on Pinterest a long time back and the story goes likes this: "My mother loves to collect tea cups but my dad always used to fuss about it. Her current partner built her a wall where she could display her collection. And that's when you know you found the right one."
You know you got the bestest of the best when they give you space to be your favorite version of yourself. When they understand the little quirks that makes you, You. The right person brings out the child in you.
Another instance when I realized that I am blessed with the best person I could ever have wished for is when my love, Vinayak bought me a jewelerry hanger. He knows I love my jhumkas and other imitation jewellery. In fact, he even presented me a box full of jhumkas and ear rings for my first birthday together as a couple. He used to tell that we need to figure out a better way to store my jewellery. He saw a random instagram post about a jewels hanger, commented 'link' and got the Amazon link for it and ordered it for me.
I distinctly remember one guy tell this to me while I was in my college - "Your husband is going to have a hard time with you, because you accessorize so much. I pity him for he has to put up with all of this." I responded by saying that I can buy whatever I want to on my own and it is my choice.
I do understand that Vinayak could tell me not to buy so many earrings and ask me if it was really needed. But he never did that even once. He buys me so many cute jhumkas and makes me feel so loved.
Referring to the tea cup story, I would tell this - Find a guy who understands your love for little things in life and makes your life a bit more lovely with his actions! Find a guy who gets you the perfect organizer and tells that he will fill the remaining gaps ♥️
PS: Here is the jewellery hanger link, in case anybody needs it! Amazon Link
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